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As Canada marks Red Dress Day, this woman wants to see more engagement with Indigenous communities

Amberley John says awareness days like Red Dress Day are important. But the cultural resource co-ordinator at the Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre in Windsor, Ont., would like to see more Canadians engage with local Indigenous communities year round.

Sacred fire held at Windsor, Ont.'s Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre to remember MMIWG

Amberley John, cultural resource coordinator at Windsor’s Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre, hangs a red dress to mark Red Dress Day in Windsor, Ont.
Amberley John, cultural resource co-ordinator at the Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre, hangs a red dress to mark Red Dress Day in Windsor, Ont. (TJ Dhir/CBC)

Amberley John says awareness campaigns like Red Dress Day are extremely important, but she's urging Canadians to engage more frequently with local Indigenous communities.

John, the cultural resource co-ordinator at Windsor, Ont.'s Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre, said it can be overwhelming when the public only reaches out on designated days — or leading up to them — when Indigenous communities are impacted year round.

"What we're looking for is for the public to read those calls for justice that have been put together," said John. 

"We just really need people to take that initiative and responsibility to educate themselves and have those difficult conversations so that they can take action."

Red dresses are hung on a chain fence at the Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre in Windsor, Ont. to mark Red Dress Day.
Red dresses are seen on a chain fence at Windsor's Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre to mark Red Dress Day. (TJ Dhir/CBC)

In 2021, the federal government released its action plan in response to the National Inquiry into Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls' (MMIWG) findings and its numerous recommendations.

Red Dress Day, first observed in 2010, happens every May 5, and is meant to honour missing and murdered Indigenous women and girls.

"Today is a day for us to centre our loved ones and relatives who are still missing or who have been murdered — also centre their families and come together as a community to care for one another, and at times to try and bring a lot of awareness to this day," said John.

Jaycene Whiteye and her daughter Clara Balyo attended Friday's sacred fire to mark Red Dress Day at the Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre in Windsor, Ont.
Jaycene Whiteye and her daughter, Clara Balyo, attended Friday's sacred fire to mark Red Dress Day at the Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre. (TJ Dhir/CBC)

Windsor's Can-Am Indian Friendship Centre held a sacred fire Friday to mark Red Dress Day, and John said it was nice for Indigenous community members to be with and support one another to honour this day, "whatever that looks like for each individual."

Jaycene Whiteye and her daughter Clara Balyo attended Friday's gathering at the friendship centre.

Whiteye said it can sometimes be "very scary" to be an Indigenous woman in North America.

"Knowing that if I were to go missing, or my sisters or cousins or aunties — you know, it seems like it can get slipped under the rug a lot," said Whiteye.

"Having this day right now, to bring awareness is really good … Make sure it's safe for a younger generation." 

Whiteye encourages people to educate themselves on the inquiry surrounding missing and murdered Indigenous women.

With files from TJ Dhir